A Moment with The Homeschool Minute~ Raising Real Men

Teaching a child to read seemed so scary at first. Although we loved to read, it seemed such a complex task to start to teach our first little guy. That was nearly twenty years ago, though, and after teaching seven children to read, there are few things we wish we’d known then:

God made us to read. He gave us His Word in written form and commands us to “Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.” (2 Timothy 2:15) If He commands it, He’s created us to do. Really, it’s not that hard. Eventually, your children will read! This was a huge comfort to us with our late readers.

Teach all the short letter sounds before you start teaching reading. This will make the early days of phonics much easier! We get a notebook and write each letter. We take a day or two per letter and draw pictures for words that start with the short sounds of the letters for the child to color. We play “What does this letter say?” in place of Mother May I, giving fun tasks like “Take two kangaroo jumps,” after they say the correct sound. The Three R’s Series by Ruth Beechick has lots of great ideas for fun ways to teach the sounds.

You can’t make a child be developmentally ready to read, though. If your child learns a letter, then some days can remember it and other days it’s like he’s never seen it before, he just isn’t ready to read. There’s nothing wrong with that! Kids that learn later tend to learn pretty fast. We had one child become a fluent reader at 4 years old and another at 11. They are equally intelligent–just different. By high school, both were reading at a collegiate level. One thing you can do in the meantime is to have them make the alphabet out of clay or play dough. That really helps some children cement the shapes and directions in their heads.

Keep your children motivated to learn to read by reading aloud and sharing audiobooks with them. That will remind them how fun and exciting reading can be. It will also teach them to understand the way written language sounds. That will be a huge help in reading comprehension once they are reading for themselves!

Beyond those things, any decent curriculum will do. Just follow the directions and watch God’s amazing creation as the world of reading opens up for your child. It’s a joy that never grows old! Isaac Watts wrote a hymn for children who’d just learned to read:

The praises of my tongue
I offer to the Lord,
That I was taught, and learnt so young
To read his holy Word.

Amen!

Yours in the battle,

Hal & Melanie Young

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