Attitude of the Heart
Focusing on one’s attitude and the effects it has on our lives is not a new idea of course. Psalms 15:13, says, “A merry heart maketh a cheerful countenance: but by sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken.” (KJV) My mantra for a long time now has been, “I can and I will!” At times I write it on my bathroom mirror with a washable marker, so it’s staring back at me.
This does not always mean that everything we plan to do will turn out the exactly as planned; although when we try hard, it often does. It means that we have an attitude of doing our best and sticking with things even when it’s hard, we end up finishing stronger.
I think it’s important, to be honest also. Admitting that you don’t like something in particular as much as another doesn’t mean you aren’t going to try your best. I have told my kids many times, “Hey, I don’t like certain things I am doing, but let’s focus on the end result.” Paperwork comes to mind! However, when I admit this and they see me continue to do what is necessary I feel like it helps them. It enables them to realize that even when tasks aren’t fun, don’t come easy, and you have to keep wrestling with a project; we still have to put our best effort forward. We may not want to study math so much, but we do want to go to college. We may not like paperwork, but we need to pay bills on time. Most of our eyes probably glaze over at the thought of laundry, but we all like clean clothes! Letting them see your struggles and triumphs demonstrates a good work ethic.
It allows our kids to see the bigger picture. Also, this shows that many times when we have difficulty figuring something out, we learn more. We end up exploring things we thought we wouldn’t like or couldn’t do. Striving and toughing it out produces confidence. When tasks aren’t as enjoyable, or you are feeling unsteady, it helps to focus on where this part of your goal is taking you.
Even when you do enjoy what you are doing there are times when we question the ability to keep up the pace. Stick-to-itiveness is indeed being demonstrated right now vividly with the 2016 Olympic games. Also, being depicted is the great feeling of triumph! Another profound point is who or what we are representing, as this also, is an evident concern for the contestants. There is so much more always being taught than just what we are saying. Keep on keeping on the tapestry looks different from the other side.
Sonya Payne is a blessed, happy, homeschooling momma of four! Her school theme has always been, “that they learn to love learning!” Sonya is excited to be a part of The Schoolhouse Writers team and is currently pursuing publishing and licensing. She is passionate about art and writing which has been passed onto her children. When not writing and creating art she loves ranching and exploring nature with her family in their mountain home.
