Years ago when our children were young we were part of a co-op that still brings a smile to our faces. It was called Friday school and we did it every Friday afternoon for eight weeks in the fall and eight in the spring. It was nothing like most co-ops we hear about today.
Instead of hiring a teacher, we all worked together. The moms (and some dads) each volunteered to teach what they knew–or to work with the children or to set up or clean up. We offered whatever classes the moms were willing to teach, so sometimes we had language courses, or cooking, or art, or music, or science lab. It was kind of fun seeing what turned up each semester.
Friday school didn’t cost anything unless we had to buy some supplies or donated to thank the church for their hospitality. It was truly cooperative: we all worked together to make it happen. No drop-offs, just lots of community.
We miss those days. A co-op doesn’t have to be complicated or hard or expensive. In my mind, the best kind of co-ops isn’t, especially for students under high school age.
We love spending time with other homeschoolers and sharing everyone’s unique knowledge and experience with our children; it enriches us all. Co-ops are great for that. There are a few things co-ops shouldn’t do, though:
A co-op should never make you feel like you can’t homeschool on your own. Co-ops should empower and enrich your family. You may miss it if you leave, but it shouldn’t make you doubt you can teach your own.
A co-op shouldn’t be a strain on the family finances. Remember, it’s an extra, not required. Let it go if you need to.
You shouldn’t farm everything out. Your children need you. They need interaction with you in their schoolwork. Don’t outsource everything or you’ll miss out on some of the best parts of homeschooling.
Remember, one size does not fit all. The highly academic (or athletic, or musical) co-op that was great for your oldest might be exactly wrong for younger children. Stay involved in a local support group so you don’t lose your entire social group if a co-op doesn’t work for later children.
It’s been a long time since we’ve been able to be involved in a co-op (finances are tight and we are on the road much of the year). We have some incredibly happy memories from co-ops of the past, though. We hope you’ll be able to find something like it–or start one yourself!
Your friends,
Hal & Melanie
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