June 17, 2026 – Honoring Homeschooling Fathers

Mercy Every Minute

Deborah Wuehler, TOS Senior Editor

Homeschooling Fathers Are Stress Relievers

As competent homeschool moms, we can act like we don’t need a leader. We have the best ideas and know how to make them happen. That thinking goes back to Eve. We have forgotten that loving, mutual submission supports the family best. We know about the great love relationship and perfect communion the Father had with His Son. He desires the same unity, submission, communion, and fellowship for us in all our relationships.

But as women, we tend to say, “We got this!” except when we don’t. Anytime we think we can be the lone ranger, we find that something is missing. When we try to rule over the one who’s been placed by God to lead us, we will find ourselves flailing around wondering why we are always overwhelmed and frustrated by our own efforts. Instead of trying to be in control and bear the weight of it all, we should be willing to do what it takes to fight for unity. I often have to fall on my face before God and ask Him to forgive my controlling spirit and yield myself to His leadership again. 

God has given fathers the ability to see the big picture, so they can relieve our stress in discipline, curriculum choices, and character development. They have a more objective view and have been given wisdom from God to rule our homes. They are stress relievers. Not only are they commanded to love their wives and children in real ways, but dads also have the extra tasks of provision and protection. It’s a hard, exhausting calling and we need to remember to be grateful and honoring. We teach our children to honor their fathers by being the example of honoring them ourselves. I fail here so often, which is why I need new mercy every morning. 

My husband would be the first to say he’s nowhere close to perfect, but He serves a perfect God who instructs him in life, godliness, and leadership. What I love most is my children are watching a man who loves his God fervently. If they can take that same spirit with them, they will have gained the world.

~Deborah

More from the pages of TOS:

“What’s a Homeschool Dad to Do? Meet These 6 Needs” by Todd Wilson

“A Father’s Mark” by Stacy Farrell 

“Homeschooling Fathers: From Enigma to Influencer” by Douglas Pietersma

~Deborah

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Todd Wilson

Honoring Homeschooling Fathers

A while back, I got this email from a THM reader. I’ve been saving it for such a time as this.

 “Oh, Mr. Wiiiiiilson!
Are we going to receive some suggestions for this very important day (Father’s Day), my friend?
Regards,
Julie”

Dear Julie,
I’m glad you asked. The handmade notes and the goofy, “World’s Greatest Dad” t-shirt are all fine, but if you want to hit a homerun in the Father’s Day World Series, then I would . . . fix his favorite meal, let him take a nap or watch sports on TV, or do whatever he likes during the afternoon. Treat him like a king for the day. Snuggle up to him and tell him how much you appreciate all he does for his children, and then, when the kids are asleep, treat him extra special (that’s code for any young readers). I’m telling you . . . that’s a Father’s Day to die for.

Be Real,
Todd

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About the author

Todd Wilson is a dad, granddad, writer, conference speaker, and former pastor. Todd’s humor and down to earth realness have made him a favorite speaker at homeschool conventions, retreats, and churches across the country. As founder of Familyman Ministries and the Smiling Homeschooler, his passion and mission are to remind dads and moms of what’s most important through weekly e-mails, podcasts (The Familyman Show & The Smiling Homeschooler), seminars, and books and products that encourage parents. Todd, and his wife Debbie, still homeschool two of their eight children (six have graduated with four married) in northern Indiana. You can read more at www.familymanweb.com.

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Beth Mora

Hallmark Has Missed the Mark

I noticed, and I’m wondering if you did too. In the myriad of celebratory cards in all the shops I frequent, a huge section is missing! Where are the fancy printed cards for the heroes of our nations, the homeschool dad? So I set aside a moment to share my line of cards honoring homeschool dads with you.

Card 1-Kids to Dad
(pictured on the front): Dad enjoying outdoor experiments that involve some danger. 
Dad, thank you for doing the science experiments that Mom doesn’t want to do.  

Card 2-Kids to Dad
(pictured on front): Kids dreaming of different hopes and dreams
Dad, thank you for making our dreams come true even when they involve paint and glitter!

Card 3-Wife to Homeschool Husband
(pictured on front): Husband in a sea of newly arrived curriculum boxes on the front steps.
To my hero! All these boxes represent the final result and the hours of listening to me. I treasure your patience and respect the input and guidance you have given to me. You are the best! 

Card 4-Wife to Homeschool Husband
(pictured on front): Husband and Wife high-fiving
I love the homeschool team God has put together. Can’t do this without you! 

Card 5-The World to Homeschool Dads
(pictured on front): Homeschool Dad praying
We appreciate your dedication to support and lead your family on this journey called homeschooling! You are changing the world and making it a better place. 

There is so much more to be said about dedicated homeschool dads. I’m sure you and your kids can make your own line of cards! Homeschool dads deserve all of our honor and respect.

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About the author

Beth Mora is a staff writer for The Old Schoolhouse® Magazine and lesson designer for SchoolhouseTeachers.com. She is the creator/teacher-on-camera for Here to Help Learning’s Homeschool Writing Program Grades 1-6, and a homeschool conference and women’s events speaker. Her blog, Home To Home, is one of her favorite places to encourage others. Everything she does is done to honor her Lord and Savior, Jesus.

“The just man walketh in his integrity: his children are blessed after him” (Proverbs 20:7). We are thankful for the fathers who lead their families in worship, take them alongside to learn skills, man the field trips, teach specific subjects, or even take on the majority of the homeschooling! Whatever your role in educating your children, know that you have a unique responsibility and influence in your children’s lives. May their love, honor, and respect represent the diligence with which you’ve poured into their lives. SchoolhouseTeachers.com has something for you, too! Get the e-book Homeschool Dad’s: Leading the Charge free with your membership!